All FAQs

  • Do you offer any discounts?

    No. My prices are firm.

  • Are you naked in your sessions?
    No. I will be fully clothed in leather or latex as appropriate for our session.

  • Can I ask you to wear something specific?
    In general, no. I will choose an outfit that I feel powerful in and that is appropriate for the activities planned for our session. However, if you would like to purchase something from my gift list that may be appropriate for a session, I may consider wearing it at my discretion.

    For foot and shoe fetishists: If you desire a certain shoe or boot for your session, I am happy to discuss this in your consultation. If I do not own the type of footwear you are hoping for, I am happy to receive gifts from my wish list that match your desired look, and wear it in your session. However, I do not cater to all looks as my clothes and shoes are for my own pleasure. I am happy to discuss this further in a consultation.

  • Do you offer blowjobs, handjobs, sex, or nude intimate worship?
    No. These are on my hard limits list. Please do not ask for these activities.

  • Can I cum in a session?
    Yes, but only if I let you.

  • I’m not a man. Will you still session with me?
    I am very happy to session with people of all gender identities and expressions. Please let me know your pronouns when booking.

  • Do you session with couples?
    Yes! Please let me know you are a couple when booking.

  • Will you judge me if I ask for something you don’t have listed as a specialty?
    Absolutely not! I will review all polite enquiries with a generous open mind and no judgment whatsoever. If you treat me with respect, I will do the same with you. Your secrets and fantasies are safe with me, even upon initial contact. You are more than welcome to make a request, however, I do not cater to all interests and may recommend you to a different Domme in my network should I determine someone else would be better suited to your interests. If you are curious about something, just send me a polite email and ask. It’s okay!

  • Are our sessions confidential?
    Yes. Anything that is discussed in our communications or anything that happens during a session is strictly confidential, unless I am legally required to disclose information. Discretion and your privacy is of utmost importance to me. I also expect the same level of respect for my privacy from you.

  • What is a safe word?
    A safe word is a word or phrase you can use at any time during a session to let me know you would like to pause play for any reason. I will give you the safeword during our consultation or prior to starting the session. You can use your safe word at any time for any reason, and I will immediately pause the scene and check in with you.

  • Why do you need to know if I have any medical conditions?
    Medical conditions might change how we play. For example, if you have a bad knee, I will be mindful of this and may adjust the positions I place you in. As another example, if you have an allergy to latex, I will most certainly need to know this before I slide a black-gloved finger into your anus!

  • How do I pay you?
    You may pay via bank transfer or in cash. All deposits must be paid by bank transfer.

  • Do I have to pay a deposit?
    Yes. Your session will not be officially booked and confirmed until your deposit is received. Deposits are nonrefundable, but should you cancel a session more than 48 hours in advance, the deposit may be used to secure a booking for a future date.

  • What is your payment policy?
    You must pay a deposit to secure a booking. The amount of the deposit is 50% of the total booking. Either before or upon arrival of your session, you must pay the remaining 50% before the session begins.

  • What is your cancellation policy?
    Deposits are nonrefundable. However, if you cancel with over 48 hour’s notice, your deposit can be used towards a future session. If you cancel with less than 48 hour’s notice or do not show up to a session, your deposit cannot be used towards a future session.

  • What is after-care?
    After-care is physical and emotional support during the wind-down after a session. A session can often be intense and may bring up many sensations both physical and emotional. I will provide some form of after-care to help you desensitize, perhaps a light wrist massage if you have been wearing restraints. I will always offer a chat and a smile about the session we just had.